proxy: meter /upstream requests via metrics middleware (#858)

Wrap /upstream/{upstreamPath...} in the metrics middleware so activity
log entries are recorded for model-dispatched endpoints accessed through
the upstream passthrough.

- Move findModelInPath to shared.FindModelInPath and reuse it in
handleUpstream, the log monitor lookup, and FetchContext.
- Extend FetchContext to resolve the model from /upstream/<model>/...
paths without consuming the request body.
- Add isMetricsRecordPath to limit recording to the model-dispatched
endpoints that produce token usage/timings.
- Add tests for upstream metrics recording and FetchContext upstream
path resolution.

Fixes #855

internal/server/log.go

@@ -76,7 +76,7 @@ func (s *Server) getLogger(logMonitorID string) (*logmon.Monitor, error) {
 	case "upstream":
 		return s.upstreamlog, nil
 	default:
-		if _, modelID, _, found := findModelInPath(s.cfg, "/"+logMonitorID); found {
+		if _, modelID, _, found := shared.FindModelInPath(s.cfg, "/"+logMonitorID); found {
 			if log, ok := s.local.ProcessLogger(modelID); ok {
 				return log, nil
 			}