proxy: skip very slow tests in -short test mode (#446)

* proxy: skip very slow tests in -short test mode
* CLAUDE.md: update testing instructions

CLAUDE.md

@@ -11,8 +11,10 @@ llama-swap is a light weight, transparent proxy server that provides automatic m
 
 ## Testing
 
-- `make test-dev` - Use this when making iterative changes. Runs `go test` and `staticcheck`. Fix any static checking errors. Use this only when changes are made to any code under the `proxy/` directory
+- Follow test naming conventions like `TestProxyManager_<test name>`, `TestProcessGroup_<test name>`, etc.
-- `make test-all` - runs at the end before completing work. Includes long running concurrency tests.
+- Use `go test -v -run <name pattern for new tests>` to run any new tests you've written.
+- Use `make test-dev` after running new tests for a quick over all test run. This runs `go test` and `staticcheck`. Fix any static checking errors. Use this only when changes are made to any code under the `proxy/` directory
+- Use `make test-all` before completing work. This includes long running concurrency tests.
 
 ## Workflow Tasks
 

proxy/process_test.go

@@ -395,6 +395,10 @@ func TestProcess_StopImmediately(t *testing.T) {
 // Test that SIGKILL is sent when gracefulStopTimeout is reached and properly terminates
 // the upstream command
 func TestProcess_ForceStopWithKill(t *testing.T) {
+	if testing.Short() {
+		t.Skip("skipping slow test")
+	}
+
 	if runtime.GOOS == "windows" {
 		t.Skip("skipping SIGTERM test on Windows ")
 	}

proxy/processgroup_test.go

@@ -49,6 +49,10 @@ func TestProcessGroup_HasMember(t *testing.T) {
 // TestProcessGroup_ProxyRequestSwapIsTrueParallel tests that when swap is true
 // and multiple requests are made in parallel, only one process is running at a time.
 func TestProcessGroup_ProxyRequestSwapIsTrueParallel(t *testing.T) {
+	if testing.Short() {
+		t.Skip("skipping slow test")
+	}
+
 	var processGroupTestConfig = config.AddDefaultGroupToConfig(config.Config{
 		HealthCheckTimeout: 15,
 		Models: map[string]config.ModelConfig{

proxy/proxymanager_test.go

@@ -520,6 +520,10 @@ func TestProxyManager_ListModelsHandler_IncludeAliasesInList(t *testing.T) {
 }
 
 func TestProxyManager_Shutdown(t *testing.T) {
+	if testing.Short() {
+		t.Skip("skipping slow test")
+	}
+
 	// make broken model configurations
 	model1Config := getTestSimpleResponderConfigPort("model1", 9991)
 	model1Config.Proxy = "http://localhost:10001/"