Address Gadfly review on #10: clearable color/props, column lists, dedup

Fixes from the PR #28 adversarial review (considered; not graded).

Correctness / API
- PATCH /objects/:id can now clear nullable color/props back to NULL: the
  request takes them as json.RawMessage, and ObjectPatch carries an explicit
  Set flag so an explicit `null` (clear) is distinguished from an absent
  field (unchanged) — the strongest cross-model finding (6 hits). New test.

Maintainability
- store/plantings.go + plants.go use explicit qualified column lists
  (qualifyColumns helper) instead of SELECT *, matching gardens/objects and
  surviving a future column add.
- Consolidated objectKinds + plantableByDefault into one kind→traits map.
- objectForRole factors the fetch-then-authorize shared by UpdateObject and
  DeleteObject; dropped the redundant kind check in CreateObject
  (finalizeObject is the single validation point).
- Request→service mapping via toInput()/toPatch() methods (matches gardens).
- Renamed handler gardenFull → getGardenFull (verbNoun); test helper
  decodeGarden → decodeMap; generic bind-error messages.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <[email protected]>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01JdQpdYYsTgtkJBxbcpAszi

internal/api/api.go

@@ -81,7 +81,7 @@ func New(cfg *config.Config, svc *service.Service) *gin.Engine {
 	gardens.GET("/:id", h.getGarden)
 	gardens.PATCH("/:id", h.updateGarden)
 	gardens.DELETE("/:id", h.deleteGarden)
-	gardens.GET("/:id/full", h.gardenFull) // one-shot editor load
+	gardens.GET("/:id/full", h.getGardenFull) // one-shot editor load
 	gardens.POST("/:id/objects", h.createObject)
 
 	// Objects are addressed by their own id; the service resolves the owning